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killenefc said:
In all seriousness mate turn up dressed smart but not too smart, be yourself ie. how you always are when you don’t really know them and finally if it’s right and going to go somewhere you will just know and that will put you massively at ease.

I got lucky with my missus.
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cheers mate.

this is basically how I see it too, although its very hard for me not to come across as a nervous wreck and end up seeming like a completely different person than what I really am … if that makes sense
 
I have no idea. Don’t sleep with them tho, seems to go down hill from there.


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BigBlueNose said:
cheers mate.

this is basically how I see it too, although its very hard for me not to come across as a nervous wreck and end up seeming like a completely different person than what I really am … if that makes sense
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Ok so this is why I say limit the calls and texts otherwise there'll be nothing to talk about.

A few conversation starters:

Work - what you both do and how you're both getting on

Forthcoming holidays/trips

Discuss places you've been

Ask what her interests are

Try not to mention relationships, kids or exes.
 
The Penalty Box Dancer said:
Ok....please stop with the texting because it's probably the biggest attraction killer when you're doing it constantly all day every day. If you've arranged a date theres nothing more to speak about. You don't want to get out with her and have nothing to talk about. Plus, where is the level of intrigue if she knows everything about you?

I've been dating quite a bit lately and it's not easy because girls today have the pick of the men due to the likes of tinder etc. Women have the upper hand in dating today.

I had a date on Saturday with a lawyer from Manchester, spent a fortune in a gin bar and she basically said she had a nice time but doesn't want to meet again. Probably got another 5 guys waiting for her next week ha.
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Call me cynical, but from my observations I think a lot of women just use it as a free night out somewhere expensive with absolutely no intention of getting into a relationship. Unless somebody unbelievable (and wealthy) comes along that is.
 
The Penalty Box Dancer said:
Ok so this is why I say limit the calls and texts otherwise there'll be nothing to talk about.

A few conversation starters:

Work - what you both do and how you're both getting on

Forthcoming holidays/trips

Discuss places you've been

Ask what her interests are

Try not to mention relationships, kids or exes.
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she has done some paramdedic work at motocross events and I used to race motocross , which in itself is unsual… theres not many birds that get motocross.... so we have something in common straight away
 
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