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Take care of yourself buddy, my thoughts are with you.

I don’t post that often on forums anymore but the your original post was quite beautiful. The way you speak about your wife depicts nothing but utter love. I often (morbidly) think about how I’d be if my wife passed - and I selfishly hope I...

Take care of yourself mate. Take it one day at a time.

Terribly sorry for your loss. My first wife died of cancer in 2007 and the one thing I learned was not to try to handle it alone. Reach out -- to friends, trusted co-workers, even the motley crew that is GOT. In time, I hope, your pain will diminish.

So sorry for your loss mate. I'm glad you feel comfortable enough to share with the people on here. I can agree with the sentiment of getting a shelter pet. A dog or a cat that needs a loving soul. But that depends entirely if and when you feel...

So very sorry for your loss. Wishing you strength and resolve. You've lost your wife, and with her part of your identity and routine. It's a lot to deal with but focus on the best memories and take time for yourself.

My sincerest condolences to you. I have no idea how you must be feeling right now so will echo what others have said. Talking about it is a positive step forward, give yourself time and space to grieve and most importantly take care of yourself 🩵

@Pilks , desperately sorry to hear of your loss. I have a dozen friends, husbands and wives, who used to meet up several times a week in our local. Last year, five of their partners died two wives in very similar circumstances to your own. We all...

Ive been there myself, I've experienced the sudden shock. Keep hold of all you memories, but don't let them hold you back. Every couple is different and I can only speak for myself, but she probably wouldn’t want to you to be miserable for ever...

There are probably not enough words to describe what you're going through but my thoughts are with you and your lovely lady at this very sad time. And lots of great advice and support from our brother's/sisters in Blue so know you are not alone...

My friend, I nearly choked when I first read this as it's practically a carbon copy of what happened to me not 4 years past. So much of our circumstances are mirrored too, so I have a good feel for what you are going through right now. At the...

Hiya mate. I hope you're doing ok, i lost my missus a few years ago very suddenly to COVID, i am devastated to read this, you can DM if you want and ill be around to chat, i hope you have at least someone to reach out to if you need it, you're...

Very sorry to hear this @Pilks Keep talking, keep sharing.

This strikes a chord with me. My wife died suddenly 21 years ago, I was fortunate having close friends and family as well as an understanding employer to help me through the pain. I've lost several friends and family members since then but losing...

Don't apologise mate ,that's terrible life can be so cruel all you can do is take one day at a time , take any help offered to you with the funeral ect and try and look after yourself.