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So sorry for your loss Pilks, my sincere condolences. My Mum lost her partner to a sudden heart attack and she was the one being talked through CPR until the ambulance arrived. She was in a bad way and was referred to counselling on the NHS. She...

I don’t know you Pilks but my heart goes out to you. What you’ve been through would be hugely difficult for anybody in any circumstance. Hang in there and like many others have advised on here, try to find ways of connecting with other people...

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss - that must have been a huge shock to you and so traumatic. Please keep talking to us - share all your random thoughts and what you've been doing. We will listen. Give yourself time to grieve, you don't have to...

Terribly sorry to hear of this news Pilks, please reach out of you feel the need to

Sorry for your loss @Pilks . My heart goes out to you. You have a lot to process and it will take time. DM me if you just feel like talking. As others have said, get yourself a dog or a cat. Don't hibernate. Join a club. Reach out to people...

So sorry to hear about your loss but pleased that you knew to reach out. Loss itself is enough to cope with, deal with that primarily. Don't go over the hows and whys, as difficult as that is, it stops you from remembering your wife in the right...

@Pilks im so sorry for your sudden and tragic loss, like others have stated already it’s good that you have shared your feelings with others, it’s still very early in the grieving process for you and although it sounds cliched you need to allow...

Sorry to hear your awful news, such a shock when loved ones die suddenly. Keep talking and sharing xx

I am so sorry for your loss ☹️

……sincere condolences, it’s impossible to know the right words but you’re one of us and are very much in our thoughts.

Sorry if this doesn't belong (not an Ale House topic maybe), but I wanted to reach out to a group of like minded Blues who I have enjoyed interacting with for over a decade now Last night (Monday), my wife died suddenly and rather unpleasantly...

Alright mate, don’t apologize for sharing, that’s the entire point of a place like this. Many won’t know what to say or some won’t understand how this feels but that’s ok. We can all listen. I don’t know where you are but I do know there are...

You are doing well; as a man, you're opening up and that's half the battle in our world. But, in a bout of tough love (welcome to Manville) I'd suggest a better method is doing it with "real" people...as they say, never self-medicate via the...

Please do not apologize for sharing your story. It's important for healing and this is an amazing community that will no doubt rally to your side in your moment of need. You are not alone. Keep reaching out for assistance with the grieving...

Whatever happened to SMOD?