He just said I've really hurt him and for that he doesn't want me as best man now, and that I shouldn't bother coming. Well yes... that is exactly what I was getting at.
It's just nonsense how selfish and daft he has acted towards me the past 6...
Short term, meh. Might be a bit bumpy. I say meh as it seems he's shown you little respect.
Long term, you'll have done what's right by you.
Just my take.
Last night I finally bit the bullet and told him I will not be his best man and that's he's making a mistake by rushing into this whole marriage idea. He's of course reacted badly and I think that's likely it for our friendship.
We have hardly...
You've obviously changed your ways and done a lot of good.
While I might carry some damage from the bullying still, I have forgiven those who did it. Because there is no point in carrying that anger and hatred. Neither should you have to carry...
Thanks bud, I'm on top it. Self loathing in terms of accepting and having the insight to recognise that it's an episode of my life I'm thoroughly ashamed of. I've talked about it in Supervision at work and spoke to the children I work with about...
Finished 14 sessions recently of NHS appointed therapy, and it has been hard but worth while. I've learnt loads about how to adjust my reactions to things, and although everyday has it's moments that are challenging, it has been so beneficial to...
I’m new on here and saw this post and just wanted to say that I’m a professional counsellor and I think you would benefit from counselling mate. You are self aware but the self loathing is stopping you enjoying life. There’s no good anyone...
Good morning all on this fine day ,I hope all are well and had a good night ,it would be nice to hear from @Pilks to know he is managing . Off for bloods today and shopping Matt comes in two weeks so stocking up on bits ,he doesn't take sugar or...
Good for you Pete, it sounds like they just stopped doing Kay’s hair for no valid reason, if this is the case they need calling out for their actions for this
Bring them up right, sadly I seem to have failed in that direction. Three have show zero interest in football. There is hope though, Hannah has given up Mixed Martial Arts in favour of joining a football team and is very keen at the moment...
I throw food out if I think flies have been on it, apart from anything else you’ve no idea what they’ve been crawling on. Pleased to hear the meds seem to be helping.