Fair point about calm, but if you're that calm nobody can hear you over the hub-bub?Look at it this way though.
Are me and you more likely to tell members to use the report function, or to kick off in a thread?
Which outcome is more likely to result in them walking away happy?
Staying calm wins you the argument.
Then sometimes you have to do a Khrushchev, take your shoe off, bang it on the table until you get their attention, ask them - calmly, who long do we have to listen to this .... and then, again calmly, put your point.
Thing is its all too late now, over the last few days Son has somehow been miraculously rehabilitated back into the human race like he never left it in tears AND scored two goals.
By Christmas nobody will even remember Gomes