Much preferred personally.I've spent a week in Charlotte NC. How does Raleigh compare?
It's smaller pop-wise, but when you include the full area, like Durham, Chapel Hill, Cary, etc it's fairly large. It's got a good mix of space and city as well. And one of the best beer scenes in the states, probably the best on the east coast.
It's a 'nice' place. Nothing stunning or fantastic, and you probably wouldn't want to go there on a bender with friends, but it has enough of everything to be a bit of a Goldilocks city.