Life changing moments


Way back in the day I was working in a local Foundry as I waited for my A Level results. I was involved in stacking corrugated iron sheets into piles , they were building up as the guy who worked the overhead crane had disappeared. So I used my initiative , put straps around the pile , hoisted in on the crane and was moving it around the Foundry. I looked up and saw it was slipping so moved it off the isle quickly, when it slipped it hit a pile of metal boxes which cascaded onto me. I got a few cuts to my arms and legs , but it wasn’t until I got home that the shock came out.

The next day I was still a bit shaken and decided to take the day off and go and get a proper job down the Job Centre. They got me an interview at a Gasification plant where I was going to replace a guy who was off to do a full time Chemical Engineering degree at Birkenhead College . Long story short , he taught me the job and told me about Chemical Engineering before he left , I switched courses and followed him into Chemical Engineering. As part of the course I spent six months working at Shell’s Stanlow refinery , which I hated but used my Chem Eng degree to get me into successful jobs in chemicals, pharmaceuticals and the oil industry. And all because I was young , and tried to do a complex task I wasn’t trained for I took a different direction in my life.
 
Late 80s. I was working as a lab tech at Unilever in Bebington. I had applied to the Civil Service as a direct entrant- basically you could get sent anywhere. I got offered a job at Birkenhead Land Registry. The day after I handed in my notice at Unilever, the boss of our lab came to see me and offered to match the wages the Civil Service were paying. I said no. Getting the job at Birkenhead ultimately resulted in me meeting Mr F ( turned up at a night out as a friend of a colleague from Durham), marrying him, and moving to the north east.
In a parallel universe there is crazy cat lady, still single, living in her flat on Ullet Road - but equally as happy as this version is.
 
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2nd September 2025 - My life will never be the same again.

Got told that the suspected muscle strain in my wife’s ribs was actually pancreatic cancer that had already spread to her liver. The tumours are untreatable, she was given just 3 months to live and put on end of life care.

We’ve gone past that date by a month, but she’s getting weaker by the day and hasn’t got long left.

Hold your loved ones close, as life can be cruel.
 

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