Is it my self esteem?

[Yorkie]

She has an e cigarette which he blows on in between her fags

No wonder it's not helping her quit, you're supposed to inhale not blow.

 

[anjelikaferrett]

Yep. Told her exactly that we need time away on our own, doing things just us two. No disrespect to the child here but we need to have our own time. I'm only saying this if the opportunity presents itself and she can either go away with me or her mates she will pick them and has said that in not so many words

OK, could you organise a weekend away as a surprise. Would you be able to sort out the childcare so you could present it to her as a done deal- a grand romantic gesture?

 

[The Penalty Box Dancer]

OK, could you organise a weekend away as a surprise. Would you be able to sort out the childcare so you could present it to her as a done deal- a grand romantic gesture?

Took her to London a few weeks ago (posted on here about it) as a way of spending time together but this is the thing, it's me who is making the effort and wanting to do things together. No effort whatsoever on her behalf. You know what would make me happy? If she booked cinema tickets for one night. Just something as simple as that.

 

[edge]

hard for you this mate,
no confidence at all, been there myself know the script, makes you an easy target for this type of person, you try and make it work ,but deep down you know its not right, but wonder if its you thats somehow a wrong un .
Take a step back, get yourself together and you will meet someone nice.
bin her now it will at least save you a bit of heartache in the long run and saves you the expense of two xmas presents at least , so thats a good start to your new life.

 

[JonS]

Yep. Told her exactly that we need time away on our own, doing things just us two. No disrespect to the child here but we need to have our own time. I'm only saying this if the opportunity presents itself and she can either go away with me or her mates she will pick them and has said that in not so many words

While I don't think there is anything wrong in principle with her spending time with her mates, when she is not spending quality time with you it suggests she isn't making the relationship enough of a priority

 

[Ashtonian]

Took her to London a few weeks ago (posted on here about it) as a way of spending time together but this is the thing, it's me who is making the effort and wanting to do things together. No effort whatsoever on her behalf. You know what would make me happy? If she booked cinema tickets for one night. Just something as simple as that.

One question from what you have said.

Apart from sticking your member in her mouth whilst apparently smoking in the back garden, what does she actually do in the relationship?

 

[Croker]

Took her to London a few weeks ago (posted on here about it) as a way of spending time together but this is the thing, it's me who is making the effort and wanting to do things together. No effort whatsoever on her behalf. You know what would make me happy? If she booked cinema tickets for one night. Just something as simple as that.

Tell her straight - either she books IMAX tickets for Rogue One: A Star Wars Story, or you're giving her the flick.

Also, she uses an eCig between ciggies? That's...quite the habit. Think there's some Freudian thing about always needing something in her mouth going on here.

 

[gorgeousgeorgeEFC]

Took her to London a few weeks ago (posted on here about it) as a way of spending time together but this is the thing, it's me who is making the effort and wanting to do things together. No effort whatsoever on her behalf. You know what would make me happy? If she booked cinema tickets for one night. Just something as simple as that.

Blokes always have to make the effort lad.

 

[anjelikaferrett]

Took her to London a few weeks ago (posted on here about it) as a way of spending time together but this is the thing, it's me who is making the effort and wanting to do things together. No effort whatsoever on her behalf. You know what would make me happy? If she booked cinema tickets for one night. Just something as simple as that.

I am playing Devil's advocate here so don't take it personally. If she has been on her own for a while before you came along and had to organise everything to do with her own life and her child she might actually be enjoying the fact that there is somebody else who will do stuff for her and who is taking the lead in your relationship. So it might be a sort of compliment.

The flip side is that she is an ungrateful cow who is taking advantage of you.

 

[The Penalty Box Dancer]

One question from what you have said.

Apart from sticking your member in her mouth whilst apparently smoking in the back garden, what does she actually do in the relationship?

She does all my washing and ironing. Other than things like that not very much. Between managing her daughter, working and running a house she generally has little time for me. Maybe an hour or two a night if she isn't knackered

 

[Moomin]

Took her to London a few weeks ago (posted on here about it) as a way of spending time together but this is the thing, it's me who is making the effort and wanting to do things together. No effort whatsoever on her behalf. You know what would make me happy? If she booked cinema tickets for one night. Just something as simple as that.

I bet she takes her ex husband to the pictures behind your back.

Plus, I bet he doesn't have to stick his erect cock into the popcorn for her to touch it.

 

[The Penalty Box Dancer]

I am playing Devil's advocate here so don't take it personally. If she has been on her own for a while before you came along and had to organise everything to do with her own life and her child she might actually be enjoying the fact that there is somebody else who will do stuff for her and who is taking the lead in your relationship. So it might be a sort of compliment.

The flip side is that she is an ungrateful cow who is taking advantage of you.

I genuinely.don't know anymore what is going on

 

[The Penalty Box Dancer]

I bet she takes her ex husband to the pictures behind your back.

Plus, I bet he doesn't have to stick his erect cock into the popcorn for her to touch it.

I practically live with her so I know that doesn't happen. We all have exes, we all have a past.

 

[Moomin]

I practically live with her so I know that doesn't happen. We all have exes, we all have a past.

You think it doesn't happen, but you'll never know of the bond she has with her ex husband.

 

[Ashtonian]

She does all my washing and ironing. Other than things like that not very much. Between managing her daughter, working and running a house she generally has little time for me. Maybe an hour or two a night if she isn't knackered

So then. Why are you with her?