Is it my self esteem?

[caught]

As you all know she has been going to bed early because she has felt tired, well last night she stayed up for the walking dead until after 11. Can anybody confirm it finished about 11:15? On plus one? So I went to bed at 10 and about 11 I sent her a text saying I love how you stay up for the walking dead but you don't stay up for me. She got in bed after 11 and I asked her if she had seen my message because her phone was on charge in the bedroom, I started to ask her why she didn't spend time with me and why does she seem uninterested in me. She kept saying I'm not arguing I'm going to sleep and all I wanted was to resolve this. She wouldn't answer the questions about our relationship and about her feelings towards me but she wouldn't listen and kept brushing me off. This morning we woke up and didn't say a word to each other. Is this the end?

If you just carry on with this line of questioning mate she'll warm up in no time. It just takes persistence and a keen sense of loneliness. I'd certainly continue to compare yourself to television shows she prefers over your company.

Wrap the whole inside of the house in cling film and then cover it with baby oil, wrap yourself in cling film and oil yourself up as well. When she gets in from work surprise attack her with cling film and then oil her up as well. Once everyone is oiled up and covered in cling film you can sit her down and have a sensible talk.

If she still refuses to talk then just glide up and down on the oil covered floor until she appreciates how glorious you are. If that still doesn't work then open the front door and glide right on out of there and into the path of the local Arriva bus.

I can confirm this also works.

 

[Ashtonian]

Post pics of her online on some rate my ex type site.

Then if any positive comments come back from it then show her and tell her how proud you are.

 

[Bungle]

lollolWhat goes on behind them eyes of yours?

My mum mistook my umbilical cord for a vein during labour and that was my first taste of heroin, I think that's where the problems started.

 

[Foot Long Hot Dog]

As you all know she has been going to bed early because she has felt tired, well last night she stayed up for the walking dead until after 11. Can anybody confirm it finished about 11:15? On plus one? So I went to bed at 10 and about 11 I sent her a text saying I love how you stay up for the walking dead but you don't stay up for me. She got in bed after 11 and I asked her if she had seen my message because her phone was on charge in the bedroom, I started to ask her why she didn't spend time with me and why does she seem uninterested in me. She kept saying I'm not arguing I'm going to sleep and all I wanted was to resolve this. She wouldn't answer the questions about our relationship and about her feelings towards me but she wouldn't listen and kept brushing me off. This morning we woke up and didn't say a word to each other. Is this the end?

Man up you needy sop.

She's probably starting to think the same as we are, that you're emotionally immature, insecure and extremely needy.

 

[JLW]

My mum mistook my umbilical cord for a vein during labour and that was my first taste of heroin, I think that's where the problems started.

lollollol

 

[The Penalty Box Dancer]

Man up you needy sop.

She's probably starting to think the same as we are, that you're emotionally immature, insecure and extremely needy.

She already thinks that. I don't know what to do to get things the way they should be. She said she is walking around on eggshells trying not to upset me

 

[Ashtonian]

She already thinks that. I don't know what to do to get things the way they should be. She said she is walking around on eggshells trying not to upset me

Might be way off the mark here,

but is this a twisting of words and you are in fact female as well?

 

[Lune1878]

I don't know what to do to get things the way they should be

How should it be?

 

[The Penalty Box Dancer]

I just want a proper relationship. How it was 6 months ago before I became insecuere.

 

[Foot Long Hot Dog]

She already thinks that. I don't know what to do to get things the way they should be. She said she is walking around on eggshells trying not to upset me

Stop being such a Mary would be a start mate.

She's with you because she wants to be, your insecurities are your issue not hers. The more you continually question her commitment (based on nothing I might add) the more likely it is that you'll create a self fulfilling prophecy

 

[chrismpw]

She already thinks that. I don't know what to do to get things the way they should be. She said she is walking around on eggshells trying not to upset me

Sit down and write a list of the things you bring to the relationship. Add to it everything your girlfriend brings. Read it every morning. Be confident and take control.

Worry never makes things better, action does. Worry distracts from action.

 

[The Penalty Box Dancer]

We spoke earlier, could seeing less of someone be a good or bad thing?

 

[jal123]

For her I'd imagine seeing such a wet wipe like you a lot less will be liberating.

 

[Ashtonian]

We spoke earlier, could seeing less of someone be a good or bad thing?

Great, plan to see each other once every 50 years, and have an open relationship.

Sorted

 

[COYBL25]

Wrap the whole inside of the house in cling film and then cover it with baby oil, wrap yourself in cling film and oil yourself up as well. When she gets in from work surprise attack her with cling film and then oil her up as well. Once everyone is oiled up and covered in cling film you can sit her down and have a sensible talk.

If she still refuses to talk then just glide up and down on the oil covered floor until she appreciates how glorious you are. If that still doesn't work then open the front door and glide right on out of there and into the path of the local Arriva bus.

That is one of your finest to date and there have been many