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  1. coollino

    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    He may have reacted badly as he knows you are right
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    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    Yeah she has a sister, I get the impression she doesn't tell anyone about anything and then she just explodes. Her family are pretty well off so it might be a shame thing, I don't know. Her friends that I've met are the same too He has just started a new construction business, and his stepdad...
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    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    She has/has loads of troubles. She can't have kids, her husband recently tried to overdose twice in a week, she has a Power of Attorney over her dad who has mental health problems due to addiction but the court still deams he has to agree to decision's (or something odd like that) But day to...
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    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    You may, or may not remember, me mentioning a while ago about the suspicions I had about a colleague, who I am quite good friends with, drinking at work (not just 2 wines at lunch). Anyway, it got really bad recently and it was pretty obvious she was drunk in the mornings and absolutely stank of...
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    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    Thanks all @blueloon Yeah I'm all good, was just a bit crap a few weeks ago where all my normal routes were flooded and I lost motivation as I hate running near roads (I tend to run in parks, wood, trails for fun) and I had various colds for a month. I didn't realise how much running regularly...
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    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    I hadn't been for a run in a week and a half, which is ages for me. I had been well anxious and I couldn't really work out why, I went for a run today and it all pretty disappeared. I had no idea how much it kept me feeling good really, it's crazy. A bit worrying that maybe running papers over...
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    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    I think the most important thing you can do is look after eachother as much as possible, at least none of you are alone. Take care
  8. coollino

    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    I've been asked to sit in on a redundancy meeting with someone last min, tomorrow. I've had a look at somethings online but it's all very corporate and I'm not really concerned about that part. Has anyone done it and what's expected me from more of like a personal level, am I meant to just sit...
  9. coollino

    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    Yes, it's definitely true. I have a mate who was addicted to booze, then coke, then reading.. which got him clean and now is.... addicted to marathon running
  10. coollino

    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    Yeah she is going to try get back into yoga, and her fitness workout of doing the choreography in r n b music videos ha. She also sings for 'therapy' but she has had chance to go any of that due to a constantly crowded house. I hopefully once the stress goes a little she can enjoy them again I...
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    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    Thanks, didn't think of that. Yeah I'm sure that will be enough, she has been offered meds which she was surprised about seeing that this as only just happened but she wants to avoid them I've been telling her for ages that work, along with the house renovation/her parents at ours all the...
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    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    Thanks, she did get signed off in the end, but through calling 111 as her normal GP didn't offer her an appointment for nearly a week..she got it on the day with 111. Her manager did send her a 'nice' text saying it is his fault, that he will make changes to help her etc. obviously that's what...
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    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    Thanks all, she attempted to contact the docs today, it said it was submitted on the form but apparently the doctors never got it so will have to try at 8am tomorrow but she is just going to call in sick anyway
  14. coollino

    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    They are outsourced, it's like talking to a robot. She doesn't want to but I'm struggling to see a better way out at the minute, she is the only person who does her job and no one covers despite her part time hours
  15. coollino

    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    I think they may have seen this coming, but they've done absolutely nothing to help so I'm not sure what the best thing is to do other than this
  16. coollino

    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    My gf is really struggling with work atm, her manager is absolutely terrible - for eg, she said she was struggling to sleep with the stress of work and he said he had a bad night sleep cos he nearly ran over a badger(?). He wasn't joking as well. It's by far the worst I have ever seen her over...
  17. coollino

    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    Jeez that sounds like that would be a tough one, good luck if it ever comes to that but hopefully it won't
  18. coollino

    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    She might have gotten out of it this time as she has COVID, so she'll be ok this time... I'll just worry about it in two weeks time again!
  19. coollino

    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    On the subject of jobs, I might have to sack someone on Monday which I am dreading. It might end up being the right decision, but it's difficult as the person is really nice and suffers with anxiety but I can see why people above me would rather she is let go. As her manager I have been trying...
  20. coollino

    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    I don't even think you should get a 'telling off' if you have lost it etc for the first time, unless you were drunk and acting like an idiot or something. Losing something can happen anyone. I once lost my passport on the way to a job I didn't get, and realised as I was walking into the...
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