Southall was 37 years of age when we won the FA Cup, so definitely at the tail end of his career. Still won the motm award though I don't think that was anywhere near one of his best ever games. He done everything I'd expect him to do with...
You've obviously changed your ways and done a lot of good.
While I might carry some damage from the bullying still, I have forgiven those who did it. Because there is no point in carrying that anger and hatred. Neither should you have to carry...
Thanks bud, I'm on top it. Self loathing in terms of accepting and having the insight to recognise that it's an episode of my life I'm thoroughly ashamed of. I've talked about it in Supervision at work and spoke to the children I work with about...
Very few bullies make anything of their lives...unless they end up on the opposing side of the spectrum because they come up against someone stronger (not necessarily a bully in their own mould) or because they simply grow up and become more...
Finished 14 sessions recently of NHS appointed therapy, and it has been hard but worth while. I've learnt loads about how to adjust my reactions to things, and although everyday has it's moments that are challenging, it has been so beneficial to...
I’m new on here and saw this post and just wanted to say that I’m a professional counsellor and I think you would benefit from counselling mate. You are self aware but the self loathing is stopping you enjoying life. There’s no good anyone...
Well done. I missed the chance to make a timely reply to your original post so I'm very happy that it all went well. You must feel very proud of yourself - and deservedly so.
This, however, it doesn't negate "I was a bully". It STILL bothers me COYBL, and although its not something I'm fixated or pre occupied about, its never too far away. Use my experiences on the subject as something people may learn from.