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I am so,so sorry to hear about this mate, my heart goes out to you, important to grieve but things do get better over time. Years ago we lost our second Child during Childbirth, at that time we thought it was the end of the World, but it is true...

My sincerest condolences to you. I have no idea how you must be feeling right now so will echo what others have said. Talking about it is a positive step forward, give yourself time and space to grieve and most importantly take care of yourself 🩵

This as well. Live in Liverpool but work in Manchester/Oldham/Blackpool/Fleetwood most days so if you're anywhere between I can swing by if you need anything. Shopping, some help with stuff around the house, a natter, whatever. Just message me...

So sorry to hear this mate. One thing I would say is this forum is definitely a place where you can seek solace and there is always someone on hand for a chat.X

@Pilks , desperately sorry to hear of your loss. I have a dozen friends, husbands and wives, who used to meet up several times a week in our local. Last year, five of their partners died two wives in very similar circumstances to your own. We all...

My sincere condolences to you. I cant even think of the right words to say how you must be feeling right now. We are all thinking of you Im sure your lovely wife will be smiling down at you 💙

Life can be so cruel. No words are gonna help, it's gonna be long process. Try to make sure you eat properly (i know it can be difficult) and keep talking to people. Are you from Liverpool? . If you feel like you can't go out is there anything...

Ive been there myself, I've experienced the sudden shock. Keep hold of all you memories, but don't let them hold you back. Every couple is different and I can only speak for myself, but she probably wouldn’t want to you to be miserable for ever...

There are probably not enough words to describe what you're going through but my thoughts are with you and your lovely lady at this very sad time. And lots of great advice and support from our brother's/sisters in Blue so know you are not alone...

Wow! 30 years married and you had the strength to keep your vows and help her through her disability in her recent life as her Carer. You are more of a man than a lot of people out and about there. I doff my cap to you and offer you my sincerest...

My friend, I nearly choked when I first read this as it's practically a carbon copy of what happened to me not 4 years past. So much of our circumstances are mirrored too, so I have a good feel for what you are going through right now. At the...

So sorry for your loss @Pilks ,and under traumatic circumstances too. I hope in time you can find some comfort from being with her and that you looked after her for right till the end. It sounds like you were a great couple who, in spite of the...

Very sorry to hear this @Pilks Keep talking, keep sharing.

……sincere condolences, it’s impossible to know the right words but you’re one of us and are very much in our thoughts.

Awww man,that's hard. So sorry for your loss and the trauma of having to cope with it in that way. At least she was with you when it happened and you had the chance to try to do something. You're not alone - there are hundreds on this site...