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Id have a different pathway to be honest, the top players that would come here at the moment arent the ones we should be after, they are surplus to requirements at clubs who are achieving and will lack th motivation of what psychologically will...

I'll certainly look on those sites. Thanks mate. I do have a phone, only pay as you go like. Don't use the internet on it much as pay as you go data is pretty much a rip off. Yeah I'll be down the library too! I'll check it out when I find a...

There`s a site called - Freebay. People just want stuff out of their house and are happy to give it away - fridges, sofas, washing machines etc

Loads of stuff available online, people literally throwing away useable item because they’ve upgraded. Fridges, freezers toasters, coffee machines, panini presses all for free (I kid you not). Lots of folks want rid of stuff. While you’ve still...

Thanks for the kind words as usual Grinch. You have a lot more faith in me than I do hehe.

In a perverse way that is a lovely bulletin of your past. Sounds awful but the end made me smile. I'm made up things are better for you and you have a good job and a good woman. I won't ever have a good job but hopefully I'll have the rest of...

@MrD Okay here goes. Between July 2015 and September 2017 this was my journey: - Split up with wife of 7 years - My daughters (then aged 7 and 4) moved out with her, I couldn't even look at their empty room without breaking down - Ex wife meets...

Too many people make the mistake of reading too many 'inspirational' life quotes on social media and believing that a positive slant can be taken on any situation. Thats not true, crap times are just that, crap. Instead of sugar coating them, I...

Couldn’t agree more. I’m lucky enough that I have taken my kids on overseas holidays. My daughter can’t remember most of them, but does remember me making up stories for her at bedtime when she was 4. And so do I. Those are the precious memories...

Perhaps your Mum is trying the 'cruel to be kind' / 'tough love' route, mate. She loves and cares for you, she wouldn't have had you back at in the 1st place if that wasn't the case. Sometimes we all need an arm around the shoulder, telling us...

@MrD There is so much you can do for very little outlay in Liverpool. The bus ride and £10 ( if you c because you have a daughter who needs her hero of a dad

We are rooting for you man! You have the GOT family behind you. You know im going to check on you. Genuinely care about where your life goes from here as much as everyone else. Never alone buddy :)

Try not to guess ahead mate, hopefully you'll get a good therapist who'll explain it all. Its not a sudden change, its gradual. They give u homework to do, they explain to u re challenging the thoughts that come into your head, they talk about...

Best way I can explain it is that it's like retraining your mind. It can take several weeks and alot of effort. I used to have certain thought path ways that ended up in a very negative place. I had to actively force my thoughts down a different...

Spot on mate. I was negative approaching counselling but within 10 mins I was pouring my heart out (and sobbing!) And the therapist was great. She explained to me what was happening re my thoughts (and why). It made loads of sense and Was VERY...