So sorry for your loss mate. This is devastating to read.
Can only echo what so many others have said, take it one day at a time and talk. Talking really is the best way to do with it. We lost my grandparents on my mum's side quite quickly, one...
So sorry for your loss @Pilks ,and under traumatic circumstances too. I hope in time you can find some comfort from being with her and that you looked after her for right till the end. It sounds like you were a great couple who, in spite of the...
Hiya mate. I hope you're doing ok, i lost my missus a few years ago very suddenly to COVID, i am devastated to read this, you can DM if you want and ill be around to chat, i hope you have at least someone to reach out to if you need it, you're...
This strikes a chord with me. My wife died suddenly 21 years ago, I was fortunate having close friends and family as well as an understanding employer to help me through the pain. I've lost several friends and family members since then but losing...
Don't apologise mate ,that's terrible life can be so cruel all you can do is take one day at a time , take any help offered to you with the funeral ect and try and look after yourself.
Heartfelt sympathy and condolences on your loss Pilks.
I don't really know what to say here other than to keep talking and keep logging in here as this place is magic when we need some strength from somewhere.
Much love 💙
So sorry to hear about your loss but pleased that you knew to reach out.
Loss itself is enough to cope with, deal with that primarily. Don't go over the hows and whys, as difficult as that is, it stops you from remembering your wife in the right...
@Pilks im so sorry for your sudden and tragic loss, like others have stated already it’s good that you have shared your feelings with others, it’s still very early in the grieving process for you and although it sounds cliched you need to allow...
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss - that must have been a huge shock to you and so traumatic. Please keep talking to us - share all your random thoughts and what you've been doing. We will listen. Give yourself time to grieve, you don't have to...
I am very sorry for your loss. It is a shocker losing someone unexpectedly. I went through something similar when my Dad passed. He was wheelchair bound and my Mom was his full-time carer with me helping out around work.
He suffered a pulmonary...
Sorry if this doesn't belong (not an Ale House topic maybe), but I wanted to reach out to a group of like minded Blues who I have enjoyed interacting with for over a decade now
Last night (Monday), my wife died suddenly and rather unpleasantly...