I watched the clip from old “Robbo” again and even though it’s only a short piece it’s actually quite illustrative of his thinking and the essence of the inherent contradictions of kopitism.
The obvious starting point is he contradicts himself not sure in the same sequence but in the same sentence. He opens with (and I paraphrase here to avoid the repetition of the abusive language) saying how awful Everton fans are and how it shows up how useless we are. Within the same sentence he also adds “I’ve done it”. It’s done almost unthinkingly.
At quite young age children learn to differentiate between different behaviors and see how they fit into the world around them. They begin to develop a consistent value set around that. So for example if they do something, and another child does something they begin to learn either what they are doing is good, or that if it causes him maybe what they had done is negative so needs to be stopped. So hitting someone is not very good, because when it’s done to them it’s not nice, so they stop. As indicated this process happens at primary school, quite early on.
His response to me shows no capability of being able to do this. He seems to think the same behavior done by others that he has done himself should be framed radically differently.
It could just be stupidity though in this instance its clearly not this. He’s not a stupid man (or at least he’s not intellectually incapable of understanding a contradiction most 8 year olds find easy to grasp). What you are looking at here is narcissism.
The most striking part of the clip is the 2nd part where he talks about going home and wishing we were them. This is the fuel for him. The idea that we all look at him and wish we were him. That’s whats going on behind closed doors. The world is essentially a bunch of people, however they act publically who privately just wish they could be as successful and talented as him.
This is true narcissism. The overwhelming love of oneself matched with an illogical world view that means an inability to spot even the most obvious of contradictory behaviors. His rationality for the contradiction would be that it’s great when he does it, because he’s great.
It’s also worth noting for people with such a world view that it’s actually almost impossible for others around them to behave in a way that won’t be criticized. It’s almost impossible for someone to love them as much as they love themselves, and when you fail in this endeavour you will be held responsible, however illogical it is.
What’s caused him such annoyance is not Everton fans partaking in some quite logical (for football standards) or mild actions when Liverpool don’t win the league (the same sort of celebrations they partake in when Everton were nearly relegated I should add). It’s the mere existence that irks him. That people exist, in in their private lives and don’t think he is amazing and something to be desperately emulated, but someone who ought to be pitied for mindset.
So yes, it’s not just that he’s too stupid to see the contradiction. What we actually have is a man, and people around him, people next to him, an editor who put it out etc etc who are incapable of seeing it.
The primary reaction to this is of course confusion. However for some it boils over into rage and anger. This is why again they can’t understand why people generally despise their behavior and see them as hooligans, because their behavior is primarily based on a value set of love not aggression. The problem is the levels of self love and delusion are off the scale and can’t exist with the realities of the world.
You’ll see on a grander scale this playing out too. They cannot accept that they are not a special team/club. It will mean they play out a narrative that they are actually champions when they finished 2nd. This will likely be somewhat abetted if they win the CL (which I expect) so you won’t get to witness it in all it’s untainted glory.
Unfortunately sections of the media pander to it, like parasite to host. It doesn’t really do anyone any good.
As for Evertonians, keep existing. The existence of supporters who are able to shine a mirror to them will cause the most anger and fear amongst them.