Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

kithnou said:
Going with an attacking 4-3-3 formation :)

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I will play 'in the hole' .Just that I decide exactly where the hole is at any given time. Usually within ten yards of the centre cirlcle, and the ball must be given to me to feet. On no account can I or will I run for it.
 
big bobs beard said:
I will play 'in the hole' .Just that I decide exactly where the hole is at any given time. Usually within ten yards of the centre cirlcle, and the ball must be given to me to feet. On no account can I or will I run for it.
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I'll put you next to @The Esk as he will be doing "an Idrissa" all over the field for the full 90 minutes. He'll make you look good ;)

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COYBL25 said:
Where do you live mate, there may be a Yugoslavian ex pat community in the area thay you live in ?.
They almost certainly could help you find someone to talk to and help you. I'm sure you wouldn't be the only one to experience feelings like this, which I may add, are only natural given the circumstances[/QUOTE
I'm Liverpool based born and bred. I wouldn't say I have the problems that many people who have suffered war end of with, I jut think it leaves you with a more cynical view of the world. I do speak to people from the ex Yugoslavia but to be honest I don't really think it improves your mood. I supposes all people from all backgrounds inherit their parents view the world optimistic or pessimistic. I heard some barmaid talking a customer about how a positive attitude breeds positive results, I don't really buy that, I think postive experiences breed a positive attitude. Problems with anxiety and slight mental health issues do run In my dads side of the family which probably hasn't helped me in life.
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Finally got back in and watched the match after a day zip lining in Quebec in the pissing rain which was ace. Made the mistake of calling my parents on their anniversary before I could get in and watch it and before I could get "don't tell me the score" out I could tell my dad was happy so we'd won.

We started a bit slow which I think we have a tendency to do each match to get a feel for it. What can you say about that ridiculous decision for the goal. Ok, Stekelenburg could have used his body and been better positioned, but Negredo gets nothing on that ball and that's a foul. I love the way Goodison gets when the ref cocks up, Webb saying it is one of the hardest places to referee gave me some pride (I hated him). The crowd responded and the players followed.

Great for Barry to score and continue his great form, him and Gueye solid again. The defense has been great so far and Coleman earned his goal. Holgate will have his work cut out for him and Coleman will have to see him as good competition after his promising start.

Bolasie has put an end to my qualms over his price with another great shift with lots of crosses and a good goal, sorry Rom. Valencia looked alright when he came on, wasn't staying central though and I saw him on both wings at times. I do worry about the team without Lukaku, so I'm hoping for all the best with Valencia.


Second in the league and undefeated after five games. Points on the board early. Very happy.
 
Efcjake said:
Finally got back in and watched the match after a day zip lining in Quebec in the pissing rain which was ace. Made the mistake of calling my parents on their anniversary before I could get in and watch it and before I could get "don't tell me the score" out I could tell my dad was happy so we'd won.

We started a bit slow which I think we have a tendency to do each match to get a feel for it. What can you say about that ridiculous decision for the goal. Ok, Stekelenburg could have used his body and been better positioned, but Negredo gets nothing on that ball and that's a foul. I love the way Goodison gets when the ref cocks up, Webb saying it is one of the hardest places to referee gave me some pride (I hated him). The crowd responded and the players followed.

Great for Barry to score and continue his great form, him and Gueye solid again. The defense has been great so far and Coleman earned his goal. Holgate will have his work cut out for him and Coleman will have to see him as good competition after his promising start.

Bolasie has put an end to my qualms over his price with another great shift with lots of crosses and a good goal, sorry Rom. Valencia looked alright when he came on, wasn't staying central though and I saw him on both wings at times. I do worry about the team without Lukaku, so I'm hoping for all the best with Valencia.


Second in the league and undefeated after five games. Points on the board early. Very happy.
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Wrong thread mate x

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I appreciate what you're saying about Yugolsavian ex pats - misery loves company.

Surely they're not all like that ?

As for your parents, why do you have to be like them ?

Just because they are a certain way dosent mean you have to be. I accept that upbringing , life experiences and role models shape the way we are as people, but it doesn't mean that these things have to define us.

Only a suggestion, but I think you'd probably really benefit from talking to professionals. They could help you understand and come to terms with the things that you feel ?
 

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