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MickM86

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My girlfriend has started coming the match with me, she started late last season and got into it so she got a season ticket directly behind me. We went to Accrington together and Blackburn together on Saturday. I've been enjoying going with her and because its a new thing for her I find it enjoyable seeing how she enjoys it and I love her being around Everton and the fans singing and having a good time. Having her there has grew on me massively and I look forward to games next season that she can experience, I can't wait for her to experience a derby, Man Utd, City, Chelsea, cup games, boss aways, but something happened before that could change everything.

We got into an argument and she said I'm selfish and it's always what I want to do and where I want to go, she's vowed not to go to any games at all with me from now on and she is really stubborn so I can see her sticking to this. What has pi**ed me off is she won't get to experience boss games and boss days out etc. obviously I'm still going to go but I feel like I'm gonna be sitting on my own at matches. I won't have anyone to share my experience with. What do I do? How do I overcome this and basically get on with it? It sounds silly but I just need to know how to go about this. Do I stay with her or leave?

Please no Stubbs related replies or unnecessary sarcasm, this is serious and I'm quite gutted.
 

sounds like she has said this straight after an argument so she may be using it as ammunition to hurt you in the heat of the moment.

once it blows over, take her somewhere nice, make up and she will prob change her mind again.
 
Just go dancing or shopping with her, lad.

I get the pleasure of sharing something you love with her but if she's upset that you as a couple always do what you want then it's time to let her share something she loves with you.
 

Artetafan said:
Just go dancing or shopping with her, lad.

I get the pleasure of sharing something you love with her but if she's upset that you as a couple always do what you want then it's time to let her share something she loves with you.
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This is where it's at.
 
AF is basically right. If you do one day of the weekend with Everton spend the other day doing something she wants.
 
Yea you's are both right. I do need to do things she wants to do as well, I was just so happy getting her into Everton and teaching her about football, it feels amazing when your girlfriend wants the new Everton top and asks me who plays in what position. I never thought I could create an Evertonian.

I do need to take an interest in what she wants like. I do get the feeling she'll be selling her tickets as I made the mistake if telling her about stubhub.
 
Artetafan said:
Just go dancing or shopping with her, lad.

I get the pleasure of sharing something you love with her but if she's upset that you as a couple always do what you want then it's time to let her share something she loves with you.
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This really, although I hope for your sake it's not dancing or shopping. She's going out of her way to experience what you enjoy/love with you, she's expecting the same, and unselfish commitment in return mate.
 

Moomin said:
What was the fight about? How did it start?? Need to look at the cause, and we can investigate from that.
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Because we don't do things she wants and every day I talk about Everton to her, if I never spoke Bout Everton we wouldn't have anything to talk about.
 
MickM86 said:
Yea you's are both right. I do need to do things she wants to do as well, I was just so happy getting her into Everton and teaching her about football, it feels amazing when your girlfriend wants the new Everton top and asks me who plays in what position. I never thought I could create an Evertonian.

I do need to take an interest in what she wants like. I do get the feeling she'll be selling her tickets as I made the mistake if telling her about stubhub.
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Born, not manufactured mate..

She may enjoy the odd big game, but Palace at home will be a tough sell.
 
Thinking about it, she might want you to go the game by yourself so she can play hide the sausage with one of your mates.

Fcuking bin bag her, and punch one of your friends randomly.
 

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