ijjysmith
Calm
This doesn't seem to happen on many games these days but you used to be able to choose between "Ranked" and "Player" lobbies, the latter being less serious and more for fun. I used to nearly always go for player lobbies as more often than not I'm a bit pants at the game I was playing.
I seem to be able to hold my own online with racing games though, strangely.
That's cool.
I'm the same with Fifa seasons. I can do well on that as its an even-ish game. But Ultimate Team seems loaded with players who have spent actually money on there actual team.