a little advice - serious replies only please
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Nordecke
Player Valuation: £35m
I've got an update for you!
She went to see the consultant this morning who checked her under the microscope, there are NO signs of cancer anymore, it has gone
She has to go back in 3 months and be constantly monitored but as it stands, she's beaten it
Didn't see this.. Outstanding news.
Hayee
Player Valuation: £40m
ive had abnormal cells removed, usually theyre detected and treated before they can develop into cancer, but her first smear was normal and it was only highlighted 3 years later after her second one; she was unlucky and had a fast growing cancer but the treatment has worked and shes got a second chance at life. last christmas meant so much to her because she didnt think she would see it!
Nordecke
Player Valuation: £35m
That's great news.. Made up for her.
trebilcock66
Player Valuation: £8m
Didn't see this first time round.
So things can come good - good to see a happy ending. Puts our angst about transfer windows into perspective...
I'm sure that your mate got truly unconditional support from you so you've contributed to her progress - well done.
I've stood by a mate who watched her hubby succumb to leukaemia three years ago. Her two children aged 12 and 10 lost their dad.
I've learned that people in that situation get the most benefit from friendship when they can choose the time and duration of any conversations or get-togethers. There have been times when she doesn't want to even mention her loss. And others where she's been desperate for a ready and non-judgemental ear. There've been times when I've not agreed with what she's done in handling it. If she asks for my opinion I give it - quietly and affectionately. If she doesn't ask - I say nowt.
I also know that getting this good news doesn't necessarily take the fear away. It'll always be there. So she'll still need her friends. But you knew that already....
So things can come good - good to see a happy ending. Puts our angst about transfer windows into perspective...
I'm sure that your mate got truly unconditional support from you so you've contributed to her progress - well done.
I've stood by a mate who watched her hubby succumb to leukaemia three years ago. Her two children aged 12 and 10 lost their dad.
I've learned that people in that situation get the most benefit from friendship when they can choose the time and duration of any conversations or get-togethers. There have been times when she doesn't want to even mention her loss. And others where she's been desperate for a ready and non-judgemental ear. There've been times when I've not agreed with what she's done in handling it. If she asks for my opinion I give it - quietly and affectionately. If she doesn't ask - I say nowt.
I also know that getting this good news doesn't necessarily take the fear away. It'll always be there. So she'll still need her friends. But you knew that already....
bluebloodinmyveins
Player Valuation: £60m
I've got an update for you!
She went to see the consultant this morning who checked her under the microscope, there are NO signs of cancer anymore, it has gone
She has to go back in 3 months and be constantly monitored but as it stands, she's beaten it
I missed this earlier. Made up for her, and for you. I told you she would do it. Your support got her through it.
Onwards and upwards from here on.
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