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Connor this is a lovely wise post. Very thoughtful and good advice. I've been around "mental health" for the vast majority of my life as many will know, but I have found the death of a young person so heartbreaking. One of "mine" went on leave...

Hi Percy, having read the replies to your post, MrD summed it up for me "...be nicer to yourself..". Your very hard on yourself bud, and I believe you are setting yourself up to fail somewhat. You alluded to "600 work mates not judging you...."...

You can still dispute not knowing her much, incorporate her in your speech. Being given the role of best man suggests to me that it would render your point of view as worthy of listening to. What would happen hypothetically, if in a short period...

It's people like you as I have said many times that makes my work and yes, life worthwhile. God bless

Thanks bud, I'm on top it. Self loathing in terms of accepting and having the insight to recognise that it's an episode of my life I'm thoroughly ashamed of. I've talked about it in Supervision at work and spoke to the children I work with about...

This, however, it doesn't negate "I was a bully". It STILL bothers me COYBL, and although its not something I'm fixated or pre occupied about, its never too far away. Use my experiences on the subject as something people may learn from.

That's the issue bud and thanks for support. With my mental Health Nurse hat on, I fear he has not forgotten and the bullying he was exposed to will have caused lasting psychological mental turmoil. Of course I can't "change"things now but its a...

I'm one of those "arseholes as a child" that Larbert Toffee is refering to. Professionally and personally one could objectively view my overall life as a "success". Married 37 years, job I love, holiday every year blah blah blah. But I carry...