Recent content by BarryBlueboy

thanks, i hope you find what looking for, to stop what is happening to you... humm hard to find the words LOL... and any help i can be, i'm only a post away, or PM if they have PM's on here, even if you just wanna moan about something, I'm all ears. anyways it 22:20 here, and I'm up at 5am...

Hi, sure like I've said I'm no expert, i'm not a religious person, I've only ever been forced to go to church once or twice, I've had one mediation class I've read one and a half books from Eckhart Tolle and watched some youtude, so i am in no way an expert and as i said in the other post, the...

errmmm ok, well, thanks for the info. best regards, Barry.

yes, i know, i'm not debating it (the ego), i just don't like the terminology "ego". i have had my realization, my "awakening" while listening to one of his (Eckhaed tolle's) youtubes, however throughout my life i have had an understanding of the present moment, but i called it destiny. yet i...

Hi, thanks for the post I'll try answer step by step, firstly let me just say Im no expert Im a common bloke from Ellesmere Port, and how i came about to be the way i am, the way i think was a sudden realization, and believe me it hits you, like being hit squire face by a ball on a cold frosty...

Hello Pat, I'm not saying its not the "ego".. its just i dont like the terminology, from the dictionary definition: Ego "a person's sense of self-esteem or self-importance", i have no self-esteem and never have had, (that's not to say i dont respect myself though.) i have never thought of myself...

Hello, i have to make an apology here, where i've written "except" i mean "accept" sorry for the mistake, dyslexia can be a pain in the ass at times. Thanks, Barry.

i think its has been accepted, and we are coming out of a bad run, only the Chelsea have we lost in what 5 games, ok we're only gotten a point for most, but i point is better than nothing from some hard games.

Hi thanks for your reply. its not just about positive thinking, its about understand that there are two entities work inside your mind, a negative (thought-er), and present (thinker). The thought keeps you lock in the a loops of whys, why did it happen to me (past thoughts) or why does always...

Hi, thanks for the reply, yes, total and utter excepting any situation, happy or sad, but remember that sad doesn't mean depressed, you can gain a lot of a inspiration, many musicians, poets, artist etc have benefited greatly for saddens. the "think there for i am" is a great quot, and if we...

yeah, that the thing about living 7 hour ahead in Thailand. hope u had a nice relaxing sleep.

thanks for you reply. Yes, many people do relapse, but its good you can see this whats happening to you. "why, am feeling so down?" is a question i ask myself if it happens to me, which is getting few and few (bouts of depression, lasting short times). I look a whats around me, is it so bad...

i understand clinical depression very well, having suffered from it throughout of most of my life, i had an uncle commit suicide, due to it too. but you dont have to suffer, that is what I'm trying to say. i could go into my life's story, but we've all had bad and good times. But depression, is...

Hi thanks for the replies. the ego, is part of it, however i dont relate to the word "ego" as its a bit strange as a never suffered with a sense of self-esteem or self-importance. I was never good at anything, sports (i barely made of school football team), education (i was in a special class...

thanks for you reply. Yes, this is the use of being in the now, i wont use word practice, as i take no part or practice anything i just am I, (i'm so busy have no time to practice HAHAHA). It is a sudden realization, and understand that there is only ever this point in time. yes i have read a...