Go back a few years, I used to love the fact that we don't get involved in berating officials, and that our players seemed to do everything they could to stay on their feet unless really solidly fouled, and that we'd always put the ball out for an "injured" opposition player. I liked the fact that we played (and for the most part still do) the game the way it's supposed to be played.
But you know what, over the last month - and particularly last night - the penny has finally dropped.
I'm sick to the fkn back teeth of us playing a different game from everyone else in the league.
Yeah, we're playing badly, but it doesn't help when it feels like we're up against 14 men three games out of every four... And as others have said, we make it SO EASY for the officials and the opponents to shaft us with stuff like this.
Last night, it started with Eto'o putting the ball out for Tioté (arguably the biggest snide on the pitch)... Now, if a player has had their leg snapped in half, then fair enough, you need to get the physio on asap... but he'd taken a shot to the knackers! Painful, yes, and we can all sympathise... but it's hardly fkn life threatening!
And what do we do? We've got the ball in their penalty area, and with their defence all over the shop, and we PUT THE BALL OUT OF PLAY! An opportunity to maybe take a 2-0 lead, and really try to cement our confidence (which I still think is one of our biggest problems at the moment) and we pass it up to "be the nice guys"... Now if everyone did the same, then fair enough, but does anyone here reckon Liverpool, Man Utd, Chelsea, any of them - or even Tioté himself - would have done that? Would they [Poor language removed].
Then there's the Cissé incident. Cissé elbows Coleman in the face... Once? No, three times in as many seconds... The ref is looking straight at it, but do we kick up a fuss? No, we just get on with the game, and make it easy for the official to err on the side of not making a decision.
And do we get help from karma for this gentlemanly conduct? Do we hell, instead we get bent over by it, when the same player who should be off the field and up for a minimum 3 game ban pops up and scores the equaliser not 3 minutes later.
There have also been occasions in at least 3 of the last 4 games where our players have been fouled in the box, and stumbled on, trying to stay on their feet. Now I'm still not advocating all out diving, but when you're fouled in the area, in this day and age, you HAVE to go down. These pricks of referees aren't competent enough to make decent decisions at the best of times, so you have GOT TO do what you can to make them make the right decision.
We also need the manager to make more of an issue out of these decisions - it's not like it's one big one a season - at the moment it's one a game. It's no good saying "we felt maybe some calls went against us, but the refs have a tough job"... There's a reason the likes of Ferguson and Mourinho got/get the majority of decisions.
I'm sick of being a soft touch when it comes to the officials, and getting NOTHING back in return for being "nice". We need to start playing the same game as everyone else.