I'd like him to stay but if he wants out then so be it. I think it reflects worse on him than it does the club because a player with his ability, playing for his boyhood club should be wanting to progress within this current Everton setup. Qualified for Europe, spending big money on players, bringing through youth from the academy, just brought back one of England's greatest players and fellow Scouser Rooney, and are moving to a new Stadium in a few years.
If Ross doesn't want to fight and be part of that, then I question his mentality. Especially leaving for Spurs who have a won a single League Cup in the past 15 years, which isn't exactly a sign of a club that wins things in this era.