My Mum sadly Passed

[summerisle]

I am sure a lot of you know that my mum has been in hospital for the past 3 weeks. I have been there by her side for many hours every single day in hospital and she had been up and down and we were hopeful she might recover but she regressed quite a bit the last few days and yesterday morning i got the dreaded come to the hospital quickly phone call and she passed away about 5 minutes after the call i.e before i got there. She passed peacefully and without too much suffering thanks to the amazing hospital staff and she looked beautiful at the end. It ended up having nothing to do with the flu. That was cleared 2 weeks ago. It was her damned copd. She had been struggling with it for a long time and was in end stage and so it was going to happen regardless of the flu or other infections. I just wish it hadn't happened now as i wasn't ready.

So forgive me if i have been short with anyone over the last few weeks or the near future as it has been a really terrible time and i am now in very deep grief as she has been living with me for a long time and our lives were deeply entwined. She was my whole world.

Love you loads Mum and thanks to everyone for your understanding and thoughts in various threads over the last few weeks.

I feel your pain ; coming up to four months since my mother died and the initial distress and trauma are easing slowly. Still, most days something occurs which triggers a remembrance of her, but you just get on with it. I won't offer tired cliches - just hang on in there.

 

[Walken]

I am sure a lot of you know that my mum has been in hospital for the past 3 weeks. I have been there by her side for many hours every single day in hospital and she had been up and down and we were hopeful she might recover but she regressed quite a bit the last few days and yesterday morning i got the dreaded come to the hospital quickly phone call and she passed away about 5 minutes after the call i.e before i got there. She passed peacefully and without too much suffering thanks to the amazing hospital staff and she looked beautiful at the end. It ended up having nothing to do with the flu. That was cleared 2 weeks ago. It was her damned copd. She had been struggling with it for a long time and was in end stage and so it was going to happen regardless of the flu or other infections. I just wish it hadn't happened now as i wasn't ready.

So forgive me if i have been short with anyone over the last few weeks or the near future as it has been a really terrible time and i am now in very deep grief as she has been living with me for a long time and our lives were deeply entwined. She was my whole world.

Love you loads Mum and thanks to everyone for your understanding and thoughts in various threads over the last few weeks.

It's a horrible part of life losing a beloved parent, the ending of a chapter you wish didn't have to.

 

[Tony’s Carp]

Really really sorry for your loss mate.

 

[brieverton]

Very sorry to hear that mate.

 

[Professor Toffee]

I am sure a lot of you know that my mum has been in hospital for the past 3 weeks. I have been there by her side for many hours every single day in hospital and she had been up and down and we were hopeful she might recover but she regressed quite a bit the last few days and yesterday morning i got the dreaded come to the hospital quickly phone call and she passed away about 5 minutes after the call i.e before i got there. She passed peacefully and without too much suffering thanks to the amazing hospital staff and she looked beautiful at the end. It ended up having nothing to do with the flu. That was cleared 2 weeks ago. It was her damned copd. She had been struggling with it for a long time and was in end stage and so it was going to happen regardless of the flu or other infections. I just wish it hadn't happened now as i wasn't ready.

So forgive me if i have been short with anyone over the last few weeks or the near future as it has been a really terrible time and i am now in very deep grief as she has been living with me for a long time and our lives were deeply entwined. She was my whole world.

Love you loads Mum and thanks to everyone for your understanding and thoughts in various threads over the last few weeks.

My sincerest condolences Lob. This is my mums anniversary, she died 18 years ago today. Miss her every day

 

[NathDogg]

So sorry for your loss @Lob, look after yourself mate.

Give us a shout on here or a DM if you ever need to talk.

 

[HalfTimeSayers]

So sorry to hear that. Sincere condolences. Look after yourself mate. Accept help and support wherever it is offered.

 

[PSB1]

So sorry for you and family members at this passing.

 

[Toffeepot]

Condolences to you and yours

 

[Stuartisitc1878]

Sincerest condolences mate. Thoughts with you and your family during this difficult time

 

[windymiller]

I am sure a lot of you know that my mum has been in hospital for the past 3 weeks. I have been there by her side for many hours every single day in hospital and she had been up and down and we were hopeful she might recover but she regressed quite a bit the last few days and yesterday morning i got the dreaded come to the hospital quickly phone call and she passed away about 5 minutes after the call i.e before i got there. She passed peacefully and without too much suffering thanks to the amazing hospital staff and she looked beautiful at the end. It ended up having nothing to do with the flu. That was cleared 2 weeks ago. It was her damned copd. She had been struggling with it for a long time and was in end stage and so it was going to happen regardless of the flu or other infections. I just wish it hadn't happened now as i wasn't ready.

So forgive me if i have been short with anyone over the last few weeks or the near future as it has been a really terrible time and i am now in very deep grief as she has been living with me for a long time and our lives were deeply entwined. She was my whole world.

Love you loads Mum and thanks to everyone for your understanding and thoughts in various threads over the last few weeks.

Very sorry to hear that mate, I hope you and your family are looking after each other.

 

[GrandOldSte117]

Very sorry to hear that mate. May she Rest in Peace

 

[Marius57]

I am sure a lot of you know that my mum has been in hospital for the past 3 weeks. I have been there by her side for many hours every single day in hospital and she had been up and down and we were hopeful she might recover but she regressed quite a bit the last few days and yesterday morning i got the dreaded come to the hospital quickly phone call and she passed away about 5 minutes after the call i.e before i got there. She passed peacefully and without too much suffering thanks to the amazing hospital staff and she looked beautiful at the end. It ended up having nothing to do with the flu. That was cleared 2 weeks ago. It was her damned copd. She had been struggling with it for a long time and was in end stage and so it was going to happen regardless of the flu or other infections. I just wish it hadn't happened now as i wasn't ready.

So forgive me if i have been short with anyone over the last few weeks or the near future as it has been a really terrible time and i am now in very deep grief as she has been living with me for a long time and our lives were deeply entwined. She was my whole world.

Love you loads Mum and thanks to everyone for your understanding and thoughts in various threads over the last few weeks.

Sorry to hear that mate, thoughts are with you and your family

 

[David09]

Sorry for your loss mate. Always someone around this forum if you need a chat

 

[everton1953]

It puts everything into perspective. God bless you and your family at this difficult time.