So Wigan in a QF counts because we lost, but the two QFs last season don't count because we won. Got it.
I think the Wigan one was especially galling because we knew there was basically a spot in the final. We were at home, against a side that had never won at Goodison, Martinez had never beaten Moyes, we were in good form. What followed was a complete malfunction of the highest order.
I really don't mind us being outclassed, it's happened loads of times like the QF in 13/14 v Arsenal, we played alright, just got done by a better team, nothing wrong with that, that stuff passes quickly, it happens.
What I can't abide is when we come out on a pitch seemingly gripped by fear, panicked clearances for no reason, players looking unfit, shell shocked, every set piece against us looks like it will go in, we can't even touch the opposition, we barely muster a shot, some players look as though they're in a personal mental battle just to control a football. We've lost the game before we've even started. There's just absolutely no need for it whatsoever. Other clubs outside the top few do relish big games, we used to in the 90s, unbelievable pressure but we turned up in cup finals, turned up in relegation battles, turned up against that lot. It should be a natural reaction to raise your game for the big occasion. We are the opposite, we are as a club absolutely terrified of achievement. We are so scared of losing a big game that we automatically end up losing the game.
If Koeman can change just one thing about this team I hope it's this. He just needs one, and I bet the next one will come straight after it. Just one spawny win at Anfield, just one crunch match we come out on top of. There's probably only a few opportunities this season but that's why Europa would be so good for us, we need to pack our season with more big games until they become the norm.