No-one's going to cut your cock off, don't worry. But sorry that I don't want a violent man who'd beat me up. My mum and grandma went through that. I don't want to end up like them. I didn't realise that being a violent psycho was the only way to be a man.
Do you go round punching people as well?
Nope and I don't condone it.
However for society to suddenly want millions of years of evolution, within all male mammals that generate testosterone which consequently increases aggression levels, to stop is ludicrous. Testosterone us a natural drug that causes a disposition to that response. It prepares the stronger, faster male to be able to protect his herd . It is a natural condition that should not be vilified and called toxic.
To do so is as ludicrous as not wanting fluctuations of oestrogen and progesterone which create emotional responses and the subsequent empathic and sensitive nature required by mammalian mothers who evolution has equipped (physically and biochemically) to take on the more sessile mothering role.
It's sad that we have reached a point where stupid humanity think their reasoning is smarter than evolution.
Although I detest violence I personally would infinitely rather be hit on the jaw and it's all settled (the man way), than have the persistent psychological Chinese water torture of events from years ago being dragged up time and the again with the elephantine memory of a woman wronged (the female way).
For some reason yabbering mindless society in the media seem to be determining that a brief scuffle is wrong, yet prolonged psychological torment is acceptable. I personally can't see why this is, not why the wrongs of the later are seldom raised.
I'll add that in 30 years of teaching, in my experience, I observed that boys settle disputes quickly with a quick few thumps, a graze a lump and they heal. Normally a mutual respect is established.
The only time the trouble persists is if one or both mothers of one if the boys tries to intervene with good intentiins - which only serves to keep the matter going on and in as they seek an end to the matter that matches their own perceived needs.
When girls disagree they argue and say spiteful things and often manipulate others to do the same, quite often causing persistent feuds lasting years and prolonged psychological damage to the victim.
Which is preferable?