I hate that a lot of fans are saying it didn’t matter because it was just the FA. No true fan to the core would ever feel that way. Think Pep and Citeh fans feel like that? Think the RS shrug their shoulders if they lose an FA match? No way. Winners want to win and they want to win everything all the time whether it’s the league, the FA, the shield, or a coin toss or poker. Our attitude has to be better to where we’re disappointed and even pissed we lost because we know we’re better, but not trying to rationalise it away.
One team wins the FA Cup every year.
Even if we don’t expand the argument beyond your examples of Liverpool and City, at least one of them will not win it each year.
Is your argument here that if we simply consider ourselves winners, we will automatically win?
Is your argument here that fans on here have said that losing a cup game doesn’t matter? Because nobody has; they’ve simply said it’s not the end of the world; which it absolutely isn’t.
It’s a profound, lazy oversimplification and boring cryarsing. In every game both teams want to win, and typically the one that does is some combination of better in general and/or better on the day.
Accept it. Move on, and stop this infantile nonsense of declaring that anyone in anything other than total agreement with your whinging mustn’t be a real fan because you sound like a gargantuan tit.