Had a very wild few days. Me and a girl I've known for a few months basically got very drunk on a night out and admitted we fancy one another. We exchanged numbers and have spent most of today talking and flirting. She seems VERY keen and wants to for meet up for a date of sorts soon as soon as she can sort of someone to babysit for her (we're the same age like but she has a daughter from a previous relationship).
I'm trying to just play this one by ear, I like her a lot but don't want to jump into something too fast. Hopefully things continue to go good because I've spent months wanting something interesting to come along and now it has, hopefully it just doesn't end in headache for me.
I'm trying to just play this one by ear, I like her a lot but don't want to jump into something too fast. Hopefully things continue to go good because I've spent months wanting something interesting to come along and now it has, hopefully it just doesn't end in headache for me.
Sounds good mate; just take things slow, be communicative and don’t hesitate to pull up if it doesn’t feel right or it’s going too fast. Women prefer honesty.
SiEdmo
Player Valuation: £10m
hi mate, sorry I didn't come on for an update before now I only really get a chance to come on here in work
so I met her, and it went as well as it probably could have done
she is the same woman at the end of the day and there is going to be some traits she can never shake, however she did seem more level headed (she is back on her meds) and she agreed that things could have been dealt with in so many better ways
she even admitted a few things that she had said where in the heat of argument and were not actually true
we agreed a clean slate between everyone, and I said "when I say clean, I mean clean, if anyone makes so much as a face or a word, then I wont have it", she agreed with this
I then messaged her a few hours later to see if she had talked it through with my step dad and if he agreed (he has always kept out of things to be fair to him) that it was the best course of action
I then invited her to meet my son yday morning, they only came for an hour or so but "a start" was all it was supposed to be, it was nice, made me feel happy, my lad started getting a bit ratty as he was tired and she calmed him and rocked him to sleep, and I just thought 'look how good she is at this, how stupid that so much time has been wasted'
so all positive so far, I am tentatively pleased, but lets see how it goes
YoboCopter
Player Valuation: £40m
This
And dont be scared/Worried of what might happen in future just enjoy it for what it is and see how it goes
You can back out at any time so no need to over think
SiEdmo
Player Valuation: £10m
I echo others on this mate, because its what you have been craving just be careful not to go all in too quick haha
good luck mate hope all goes well
One of those days that all I wanted was to get home,lock the door and draw the curtains.
3 points later will help.
3 points later will help.
Not sure tonight helped!!
JelavicBrate2
Player Valuation: £8m
In some ways I regret getting involved in liking football, it makes you feel great when you get a good result, borderline suicidal when you lose. I still haven't got over the derby defeat, I've been having a poor time in general, but that just added to my problems. A good result from the blues, always makes you feel better no matter whats going on in your life. I don't know how a lot of lads are still in relationships, sometimes I can't even talk to people after Everton lose. It's no surprise the pubs are always full round GP, because most of the time we either drink for dutch courage or to drown our sorrows.
Earliest sunset of the year today.
I don't let football get to me if it all possible. Have no control over the outcome so I can't change what happens.
SiEdmo
Player Valuation: £10m
that's it mate, in all aspects of life, try and worry about what you can control rather than what you cannot
messymascot
Player Valuation: £35m
Tell me about it. Yesterday was bad enough. Is 21st December not the earliest sunset? I'm good today at the moment because I got myself to the gym and the endorphins have done me no end of good. I was lethargic Monday and Tuesday due to going out on Friday night and then drinking again at a christening. As much as I enjoy the nights the days after sessions are always painful. Think Boxing Night will be my next big drink hopefully we will win so will make the following days better!
If I know I`m going out for a big night ( very rare these days ), I always make sure that I have nothing at all to do the following day, due to the massive downer the hangover brings with it.
If I have anything to do at all the day after I really moderate my drinking, as I find it very difficult to cope otherwise.
People have learnt now that they can`t goad me into drinking and I get left alone when I slow down or stop.
It`s about managing it mate
messymascot
Player Valuation: £35m
If I know I`m going out for a big night ( very rare these days ), I always make sure that I have nothing at all to do the following day, due to the massive downer the hangover brings with it.
If I have anything to do at all the day after I really moderate my drinking, as I find it very difficult to cope otherwise.
People have learnt now that they can`t goad me into drinking and I get left alone when I slow down or stop.
It`s about managing it mate
I definitely don't plan anything as it would never happen it was just annoying that it ran into Tuesday as well. I can no longer drink vodka as it has really bad effects on my mood. I'll be glad when it turns round and starts to get warmer and dark later as combination of cold, dark and hangover compounded things. As I say brighter today but how long will that last? If we beat City on Saturday I'm sure that will help also. Gonna put a coupon on all Premier League results for weekend except ours. It'll only be £1 stake but should give me a little boost if it comes in.
