Same here. Got not much in real important life to fret about, so making sure I deliver a parcel at an agreed time makes me worry. Its totally normal. The brain needs it at times. Makes us go to work if you think about it.
Same here. Got not much in real important life to fret about, so making sure I deliver a parcel at an agreed time makes me worry. Its totally normal. The brain needs it at times. Makes us go to work if you think about it.
messymascot
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No I tend to beat myself up about it but I am getting better. I am a perfectionist and a bit of a control freak as well so tied with the over thinking is a bit much sometimes. However like @YoboCopter said it's just good writing in here sometimes with enough anonymity to be a little private but enough friendliness to feel people are being on the level.
But it doesnt overwhelm you?
YoboCopter
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Yep this, people actualy comment because i fret over tiny things they say imagine you had real worrys.. its in jest like but its true aswell isnt it.. makes alot of sense what your saying another way of looking at it..
If you didnt worry life would basically be one permanent happy time and thats not realistic at all!
Yer am the same regards control and perfection making me laff actually could of rote that myself.. o well as mentioned theres worse habbits!
messymascot
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Wastes a lot of my time but no I'm not overwhelmed by it. I just wish I did over think so much cos people all throw it at me when I start doubting decisions. Even when I was younger and more spontaneous I still over thought it just wasnt as obvious. I like to think me coming on here might help others as much as it helps me. It took me a long time to pluck up courage to type my first post. Now I've started I am finding it easier to open up!
I've used running to clear my head for years but this seperation divorce and battling my wife and daughter constantly is draining me.Im the same mate train regular when am in gym its great, tunes on etc but its just when am not in gym for other 22 hours a day
I was running 3 times a week which is the minimum for general fitness most people say but I've just recently lost interest and motivation and keep going out running then giving up and walking home
Try changing your routes mate.
I find that running the same route over and over again just bores the life out of you and saps your motivation.
YoboCopter
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Or do nock a door dash
This is my first Christmas alone for 14 years mate, I'm actually really scared. I do have a 13 year old daughter but she has little interest in me. I keep trying but every single day at the moment she is negative towards me. Today she said when she visits me at my new flat she is bored ( because I can't afford sky Disney )and I make her sad and angry. I literally don't have to speak now ( because I am honestly very very shy and quiet and she says I'm being grumpy and I just don't know what I'm doing wrong.
I'm going through a devorce.
Do you spend Christmas day on your own?
I've tried that. I was doing well. 18 miles in 2 hours 5 minutes but I've given up now
What go on holiday alone?
I don't mate. I go out home to my parents for the dinner. But I come back home in the evening then. Been honest seeing Everyone else with families and that hurt me. So I like goin home. But hate been on my own. If that makes any sense
It makes perfect sense mate. You seem to enjoy the banter and company of family but don't want to be a burden so make your excuses and slip off home.
What about staying into the evening or overnight?
I just couldn't be bothered. As the day goes on I feel more jealous if that's the right word.
Black dog depression today.... only this site kept me going!
