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Fed up with the relationship I'm in at the moment.
I don't want it to end, but things need to change and the person I'm with isn't willing to change or even listen to me so I don't really know where to go.
Feel like she's just take me as I'am, whilst I'm the one who's having to change and compromise.
It's becoming quite toxic. I don't feel like making any sort of effort now and I know if I spoke to her about how I'm feeling (I have done before) she'd just ignore me and carry on as normal. Basically, it's up to me to deal with the way she is
This is going to be a tough few weeks for me as it's the first Christmas without my mum, and I don't think she's even given it a second thought.
Just feels like one of those situations where we've moved in together, and she's become a completely different person to the one I knew before.
It's put me in a bad place recently and I resent that as I've put so much effort into keeping everything together mentally after the passing of my mum.
I want it to work, but at the same time I think I don't deserve to be feeling like this giving everything I've compromised and been through.
Thats not ideal mate.
My missus is a boss mum and wife but she does at times struggle in reading the room if for example I'm flapping about something.
Thats where communication comes in - the longer you live together the easier it can get but only through compromise. If she refuses to listen then that aint fair on you lad 👍