I was in a really dark place having thoughts a father should never have last year mate when I realised I'd lost my wife. It took time and I'm not totally over it but the clouds have shifted. It's more overcast than storm clouds these days. I wish you all the very best it's not easy but a few on here have been through similar and there can be better times ahead.
Gwladys good post son your advice and support is as always very welcome. Well said fella.
Great post buddy
I would 2nd your reply mate. My situation sounds similar to yours.
It's a cliché but I'm focusing on the positives. E.g my own space, no negativity in the house, nobody belittling me at every turn, these things can take their toll on you. Same as thinking positive thoughts every day can have the exact opposite effect. Hope you're coming out of it mate
Well done Blue, good move.
That’s a brave move mate. You should be proud of yourself for taking the plunge. If you’re inclined, keep us informed as to how you’re getting on in your journey.
Nice move mate. Wise one too. Let us know how it goes.
Youve took the first steps to it being all over mate. Tonight you ripped the plaster off and opened up,Many of us been there before too mate - you'll get out of this mate and we're all with you.
Whatever it is won't be resolved immediately. But you said things went ok. That's a step in the right direction. Things get harder before they get better especially if you have only just discussed them. It's part of the the healing process. You've taken a big step in the right direction. PM me mate if you need to.
What do you need to do to move forward mate? Are you happy at work? Is it life at home? Or is it something else making you unhappy?.
