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    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    I was accused and they said they would. Inform me at each stage of the investigation. They're not even following their own policies and procedures so far, and should it go to a disciplinary they will have to be far more professional.
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    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    I'm in the opposite position in that I've been accused of bullying and harassment. Taking it's toll and I veer from emotions both high and low. Over 2 weeks now and no contact from my employer as yet. I assume it's not a serious allegation as I am still allowed to work but I just want it over...
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    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    Cheers, I believe in the inherent goodness of people and this time of year can be a bleak one for some people. I don't contribute as much as I'd like to on here but this is the thread that is easily the most supportive I have seen. There are some great contributors to it and it's testimony that...
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    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    Feeling suicidal and depressed are two massive issues that they're very hard to quantify. What would cause one person to become anxious another person may deal with totally different, and not be affected by. The key to me is to talk and release those emotions that cause them, be it on a forum...
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    Match Ticket Thread - Spares/Requests - FACE VALUE OR LESS ONLY!

    Have 2 tickets for sale for Leicester game on 19th. They are Adult and a Junior and are in Row B of Upper Bullens so good seats. Will need to post later in week and will offer decent discount
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    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    i normally take a book out with me, far easier to sit down and just engross yourself. i can communicate as was once a voluntary worker and did MI and CBT with clients. apart from my close friends i just prefer my own company. makes me laugh when people usually the bar staff tell you to cheer up...
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    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    self esteem is a massive factor to mental health issues. most people have doubts about their appearance if they were to be honest but many mask it with humour or other outlets. what matters most is changing the way you feel about yourself, even if your winging it, be positive and easy on...
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    Next Manager (Poll)

    I live in Bournemouth now and was talking to one of their training staff the other day. He was saying how anyone playing for Bournemouth at any level is expected to play at the same style no matter their age or status re squad from the academy to the seniors. It shows in their style of play and...
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    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    Reading some of the posts re splitting up with exes and feeling down and they are some of the most moving and humbling posts on here. I split up with mine 18 months back now. Got a small flat by the seaside, cut all ties especially re social media and am in a much better place now. Staying in a...
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    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    counselling isn't for everyone but go into it with an open mind and for some just the chance to offload to anyone can be enough. the fact your willing to consider it is a positive-good luck
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    Match Ticket Thread - Spares/Requests - FACE VALUE OR LESS ONLY!

    Any spare ticket for Bournemouth would be appreciated. Thanks in advance
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    Match Ticket Thread - Spares/Requests - FACE VALUE OR LESS ONLY!

    Looking for any Bournemouth away tickets. Thanks in advance
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    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    self belief is not always about being arrogant. you made a mistake and owned up to it, something that most people would never do. your integrity is good and an employer will recognise that . don't be so hard on yourself, move on and learn. you'll be sound
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    Autobiographies

    some good everton ones on here decoubertin.co.uk
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    Match Ticket Thread - Spares/Requests - FACE VALUE OR LESS ONLY!

    Hi there am looking for any tickets spare for Bournemouth away - thanks
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