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    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    I went through something similar with my teenage son a few years ago. It was a really terrible time for him and the family. Don't forget to look after yourself in all this as it can have a knock on effect. Both myself and my wife really struggled during that period. It might not feel like it, as...
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    Stanley Park Car Park

    Sorry, only saw this late. Appreciate the offer though mate, very kind of you. There were still a few spaces left at Walton Hall so I managed to get on there. Pity the game was sh1te!
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    Stanley Park Car Park

    Yeah I'm not bothered about that as a one off. Cheers mate.
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    Stanley Park Car Park

    I usually park on Walton Hall leisure centre for the match but you need to get there early most games to get a parking space. On Sunday though my lad has a match which means we'll only get to Liverpool around an hour before ko. I doubt I'll be able to get a space at that time. Does anyone know...
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    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    Thanks for the messages about my son. He sorted his apprenticeship yesterday so he will start work on Monday. He's really looking forward to it.....and earning a wage!
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    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    "I can't see an end to it." I've been reading some of my posts in this thread from 4 years ago and that line really hit me. As a family we had 4+ horrific years when my eldest son had serious issues with anxiety and depression. We really were struggling and my son was in a dark place. He missed...
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    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    Thank you, and you. We've had a great day. Due to the year we've had we spoilt the kids a little more this year. I got him a bonus present that I gave him this evening with a letter telling him how proud we are of his recovery and he was really taken a back. He's hugged me about twenty times.
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    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    My lad broke up for school last week with 100% attendance since he changed school. My wife broke down in tears reading his school report as it's the first time since going to high school that he's attained 100% attendance. He's had problems ever since going there. The report was great and some...
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    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    Well it's been over a month since my son went back to school and he's not missed a single day. He's had a couple of minor wobbles but he's still gone to school. To say he's achieved 100% attendance is remarkable considering he hadn't been for 6 months and he's changed schools. The feedback from...
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    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    My lad started at his new school on Monday. He's not been to school for over 6 months and even before that his attendance wasn't good. At one point he'd not left the house for nearly 3 months. Despite that he's done a full week, done incredibly well and enjoyed it. It's gone far better than we...
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    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    Update, 6 weeks on. He's been doing really well on the medication and he continues to improve. He's now desperate to transfer schools and start a fresh. He hasn't gone back to school yet as he won't go back to his old school. Our appeal date was next Wednesday and that was going to be a massive...
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    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    Message me if you want to talk. Happy to help if I can.
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    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    Evening blues, Thought I'd drop a quick update on my son a month on from this post. He's started his medication (low dose) and we've seen such a big improvement. From not leaving the house for nearly two months to going out for family meals, a family party, playing badminton etc etc. He's...
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    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    Thanks mate. Appreciate it.
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    Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

    Thank you. It's great to hear that you are getting somewhere and that it's a possibility for my son. I'll drop you a pm.
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